Sunday, May 17, 2009

Burnell, my mother, 1918-2009
My mother passed away this evening, May 17th. This is her wedding picture 72 years ago. She was 18 years old and moved from the big city to become a farmer's wife.
I will be absent from my blog for a couple days. We haven't figured out whether Dad can live alone so we have some planning to do.

105 comments:

Lynn said...

Will keep you and your family in my prayers.

pklaw said...

My prayers go with you as you celebrate the life of your mother. So sorry for your loss.

Susan said...

Wanda, I am so very sorry. My heart and prayers are with you and your family.

Judi said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I'm keeping you all in my prayers.

Carol E. said...

I'm very sorry. Prayers for you and yours.

Mary P said...

Wanda, you and your family are in my prayers tonight.

Mary on Lake Pulaski said...

Wanda, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beena said...

So terribly sorry, Wanda, for your loss. I will also keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Yvette said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I will do the same and keep your family in my prayers.

LizA. said...

Deepest condolences to you and your family. I went through this 2 years and 2 days ago.

Lindsey said...

Oh Wanda, please know I am thinking of you and sending my most sincere prayers for you. My mother died a year ago this month so I can relate to what you are going through. I hope it was peaceful. She was such a beautiful lady with a sweet and generous daughter. My deepest sympathies are with you at this time.
Lindsey

Debbie said...

My condolences to you, Wanda, and to your father and the whole family.

Ruth B said...

What a lovely picture of your mom. Our mother is really our longest relationship and I know when my mother died I felt like an orphan at 50. I hope that knowing so many care is some comfort to you. We care!

Brooke said...

My condolences, Wanda. Peace to you in this difficult time.

Kim Brackett said...

I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking about you and praying for your and your family.

Elsie Montgomery said...

May the Lord be your comfort. My prayers for grace and wisdom and you make decisions about your dad and as the both of you miss her.

Cathi said...

Oh, Wanda, I am so sorry! You and your family are and will be in my thoughts.

Kristin L said...

My condolences to you Wanda, and to your family. I wish you the best in finding the best place for your father.

AverettLadyNana said...

So very sorry to hear of you loss. My thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

Candy Schultz said...

Oh Wanda I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you.

Unknown said...

I have no words that can make this easy for you Wanda but I hope that knowing others are holding you in their thoughts may keep you 'afloat'.

Sharon said...

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother, Wanda. My thoughts are with you and your family as you go through this difficult time.

Featheronawire Sally Bramald said...

I am so very sorry. My condolences to you and yours.
Sally

Karen said...

Wanda, I hope you will find comfort in the memories of your mother. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Eva said...

My condolences to you and your family! My mother left us in 2001, which was a terrible loss; but I still dream of her presence. In this way, she lives on.

Edith Bieri-Hanselmann said...

Dear Wanda, my condolences to you and you family.
Edith

szkornelia said...

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences to you.

Celine in UK said...

Sorry about your loss. I am sure you will have lots of sweet memories of life with your parents as they seem to have been able a long spell together. Thinking of you in this difficult time.
Celine in UK

Pat said...

I am very behind on blogs with my little granddaughter visiting us, but I just saw this and am very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

verobirdie said...

i'm so sorry to hear your mother is not longer with you.
I hope you can find a solution for your father.
All my conlolences to you and your family.

Gene Black said...

May you find peace in your heart.
I will be praying for you.

Vicky F said...

Dear Wanda,
I'm so sorry for your loss. She's no longer in pain.
Vicky F

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Vicki said...

Wanda, I so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Chris Daly said...

Dear Wanda,

I am so sorry to hear that you lost your mother. I will be keeping your family in my prayers.

Unknown said...

Wanda, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. She sounded like a wonderful woman and you took such good care of her. You, your father and family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Frieda Anderson said...

I am so sorry for your loss.
Please feel this warm hug from me.

Janelle said...

What a beautiful woman. I'm sorry for you loss. I hope you get things sorted out with the family without too much trouble.

Julie Bagamary said...

I am sorry to hear of your mom's passing. He is Comforter, He is Wisdom and He is There. Know that I am praying for you.

stitchinpenny said...

Will pray God is with you trough this particular life journey.

jovaliquilts said...

My thoughts are with you and your dad right now. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Anonymous said...

Please accept my condolences and prayers for your mother and your family. Sally

Jackie Russell said...

My thoughts are with you and your Dad.

diane n said...

Dear Wanda,
I am so very sorry to read of your loss this morning. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It is never easy to lose a parent no matter their age. Please take care. We are all surrounding you with hugs and love during this time.

Janet said...

Dear Wanda,
My condolences to you and your family in this difficult time.
Janet

Carmen Rose said...

Oh, I'd like to wrap you up in a big big hug! My heart and prayers are with you and your family, I am so sorry for your loss!

GerryART said...

There is no love like that of a Mother's Love.
In Sympathy,
Gerry

Anonymous said...

I forgot to add that your mother was a beautiful young woman.

Britt said...

Wanda, Thinking of you, your father and the rest of your family today and in the weeks to come. I'm sure your mother will be tremendously missed. Take care.

Janet said...

My sympathies are with you. I know you have some hard decisions ahead of you. My God be with you and your family.

Debbie said...

Wanda,
I was so sad to read that you lost your mom today. My thoughts are with you and your family in the coming weeks.

dee said...

I'm so sorry Wanda. Your Mother was a beautiful woman. Sending you warm thoughts and prayers.

Iva said...

My heartfelt condolences, Wanda. May the memories of your mother bring you comfort.

ilovebabyquilts said...

Thinking of you this week. My grandfather just passed away also, he was two years younger than your mom. I'm so sorry.

Anonymous said...

Wanda, I am so sorry to read this. I know that this is a difficult time. I hope that the outpouring of sympathy and good wishes here on your blog lets you know how much we all care about you and want to comfort you as much as we can. Please accept my hugs along with all the others.

Mary G.

Anonymous said...

Dear Wanda,
My heart goes out to you and your family. You look so much like your mother - take comfort in knowing that she left a big piece of herself with you!

Pat G. Skokie

Anonymous said...

I am so saddened to hear of your loss. The picture of your mother is just beautiful! I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Take care!

Anonymous said...

Deepest sympathies to you and your dad and your family Wanda. You are in my thoughts and prayers also . Be sure and take good care of your own health, eat well and exercise even when you dont feel like it...this is hard on the body as well as the heart.
Blessed Be.
Linda M in BC

Ellen said...

Wanda, I'm so sorry for your loss... May all your memories sustain you and your family in this sad time.

Fabric Fanatic said...

Please accept my deepest sympathies ~ I am so sorry for your loss. It was a shocker, because I know you just took her for a chiropractic appointment this past week, so I assumed she was otherwise well. It is a sober reminder that tomorrow isn't promised.

Wilkal said...

I am so very sorry. Many heartfelt hugs.

Vivian said...

My condolences to you, your father and your family. It is hard to lose your mother especially when you are close. May she live through your memories of her in the days to come.

Patty Cramer said...

Dear Wanda -
Your Mother is a beautiful spirit -her pictures shows that. Please accept my deepest sympathy at this difficult time. May the wonderful memories give you peace and comfort.
Hugs to you and your family!!

Anonymous said...

Dear Wanda,
My thoughts are with you, your Dad and your family. Our Mum's stay with us always.
Carolyn

Selvage Quilter said...

Dear Wanda,
What a sweet photo of your Mom. My deepest sympathies to you and your Dad and the rest of the family. I am praying that you will have peace and comfort during this time.
Hugs to you.
Karen

Leslie said...

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I hope your family can help your dad find some peace with family. And I wish you peace as well. We're all sending prayers your way, as you can tell. Take care.
Leslie

Chris said...

I am sorry for your loss. Take your time and do what you need to do. we'll be here for you when you get back.

Chris

Diana said...

I'm so sorry, Wanda. Take your time coming back because I know there will be many things you and your family need to do. I'll keep you all in my thoughts.

DebbyMc said...

What a lovely young girl she was. I am so sorry for your loss.

laura said...

So sorry Wanda, but what a full life she must have lived, not mention having been the mother of a most wonderfully creative daughter. We will pray for you, your father, your family and for all the decisions that will have to be made.

Quiltdivajulie said...

Wanda ~ my heart goes out to you ~ orayers for blessings on you and your family as you cope with the million details that will try to consume you as you grieve for your mother and the loss of how things have been.

Please be gentle with yourself ~ grief is some of the hardest work any of us will ever have to do.

Julie

Deanna said...

Sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Anonymous said...

Wanda,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. What a beautiful woman. I can see a lot of her in you. I know that decisions for your dad will be difficult. Our prayers are especially for you for this time,
Mary Ann Wagner

Doreen K. said...

I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. You and your family have my prayers.

meggie said...

Condolences Wanda.
You & your mother will be in my thoughts.

Renee said...

Wanda... My condolences, losing a Mother is never easy. You and your family are in my prayers. We lost my Dad, 6 years ago on May 17th. Take it slow, Dad will really need you right now.

Libby said...

So sorry to hear this :(. I hope everything works out the way it needs to.

Bren said...

Wanda, you and your family are on my prayer list.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Please take your time coming back to us. Remember our love and hugs from afar.
Denise in Sacramento
(the possum lady)

Millie said...

Oh Wanda, I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. I know you took very good care of her and you loved her very much. You have my deepest sympathies, and please know that you and your family are in my prayers.

Jeanne said...

You and your family will be in my prayers. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother.

Anonymous said...

Wanda...thinking and praying for your family and the decisions that you will be making. May God be with you and your loved ones at this time.

Karen Glassford, Tontogany OH

Jean said...

I am sorry to hear about your mom...what a beautiful picture of her. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this heartbreaking time.

hetty said...

So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. She was a beautiful woman. My condolences to you, your father and the rest of your family at this trying time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marilyn said...

So sorry, Wanda. I know you and your family are going to miss her. My deepest sympathies and prayers at this time.

KateKwiltz said...

Oh Wanda, I'm so sorry. Sending you hugs from across the lake today.

imquilternity said...

I'm so saddened by your loss. I hope your fond memories of your mother will help you in the grieving process and sustain you in the years to come.

Pammyfay said...

Please know that you, your dad and the rest of your family are all being embraced in the biggest virtual hug in the world.

Anonymous said...

Dear Wanda,
I'am so very sorry for the lose of your mother. I know how what it is like. Something so special about losing our mother's. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I can see you in your mother's wedding picture. Take time to take care of yourself.
Roberta

quiltmom anna said...

Dear Wanda,
I want to pass on my sincere condolences in the loss of your dear mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Warmest regards,
Anna

sophie said...

Wanda, I am so very sorry for your loss.

Sue said...

So sorry to hear about your mom. Keeping you and your father in my thoughts.

Anonymous said...

Wanda,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Take care of yourself.

Liz

Andrea said...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rebel said...

Oh honey. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Carmiña said...

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother.

laurapatch said...

Wanda, I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a long time I read your blog and never have left a comment for my bad english but today I need to send you a hug.

Ellen Guerrant said...

Wanda - Just learned of your Mother's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ellen Guerrant

TB said...

Wanda, my thoughts and prayers are with you. My best wishes for you and your Father and family. What a beautiful picture of your Mother.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, it is hard to lose ones mother. May you only have wonderful and peaceful memories to last a lifetime.
Marsha in Va Beach

Cheryl Arkison said...

Such sad news for you and your family. My heart goes out to you.

Vicki W said...

Wanda, I am so very sorry to hear about your Mother. I am sure her life was very blessed having you so close by.

Wanda said...

I am sorry for your loss. I'm so happy that you had her in your life for so long...celebrate and rejoice for she touched many lives and made things brighter for her family. I love going on walks with you, through the beautiful flowers and plants. Thanks for sharing those. Your quilts are beautiful, as always. The colors perfect. You are in my prayers and so is your dad.

Betty J in OKC said...

I'm deeply saddened by your sudden loss. It must've stunned your family when your Mom passed.

My Mom's got dementia, so her mind's been failing for years. She's lived with me for the last 8 yrs.